Where is Your Labor Going?

Where is Your Labor Going?

You have heard the saying, “work smarter, not harder”. How about taking a step back and spending time considering WHERE is your labor going? Simon Sinek says start with WHY. Why are you on planet earth and what is your purpose? When you know your WHY, then you can go...
Rewrite Your Story

Rewrite Your Story

When you met and married, the story you began then didn’t have the bitter ending you have now experienced. That story originally was filled with adventure, with heroes, with hope. You might not have pictured the struggles or challenges while dressed in that white...
Six Good Reason – Why You Want Conflict

Six Good Reason – Why You Want Conflict

What did you say? I should want conflict, welcome conflict, even seek it out? Exactly! Why do you want conflict? Here are six good reasons: You want people willing to disagree with you. You are not as good, perfect, intelligent, and amazing as you think. I am part of...
Three Quick Tips to Avoiding Conflict

Three Quick Tips to Avoiding Conflict

We have all seen the YouTube videos of workplace conflict that make us laugh. I use a compilation for training that is hilarious, that is, unless you are the one in conflict. The reality? Workplace conflict, either between partners, staff, or employees costs...
Why I Still Go See My Mom

Why I Still Go See My Mom

My mom has dementia. She was diagnosed with Mild Cognitive Impairment four years ago. She had a 20% chance of remaining somewhat stable, a 20% chance of rapid development, and a 60% chance of the gradual march of increased impairment. My mom was the gradual march. Why...
How to Pick an Attorney

How to Pick an Attorney

The attorney selected for your case is critical to the outcome. If the other party retained a “bulldog”, aggressive attorney, the chances for mediation are slim. You will need to match the intensity of the aggressive, litigating attorney. This will be a...